i tried too hard, i tried too hard and now im drowning
Tony's hanging on the edge, he can't remember the last time he dropped, his house is full of spies and mother hens and its rapidly beginning to feel like there's no space to breathe.
And as if it couldn't get any worse he has to keep it together. He has to keep it together because no one knows. He decided that a long time ago. Tony Stark is not a little. Not to the world, not to the Avengers, and not to himself.
It's fine, he's totally fine. Nobody needs to know about his classification, and no one ever will.
(Maybe he's falling apart a bit.)
(Maybe this could end badly.)